Rooted in Gratitude: Growing Towards Our Authentic Selves
- Brenda Ridgley
- Oct 8
- 3 min read
Sitting beneath this magnificent Strangler Fig in Costa Rica, I couldn't help but feel a

profound sense of awe and gratitude. Its ancient, sprawling roots tell a story of resilience, growth, and deep connection to the earth. In that moment, surrounded by the vibrant energy of the rainforest, I found myself counting my blessings, truly humbled by the incredible journey I was on.
But it wasn't just the beauty of nature that filled my heart; it was the company. I was traveling with a group of remarkable women, all on a similar quest: to live their lives more authentically, to peel back the layers of expectation and truly embrace who they are meant to be.
The Universe's Perfect Orchestration
It always astounds me how the Universe orchestrates these perfect gatherings. Each woman in our group arrived open, willing, and eager to create her dream life. They weren't just seeking more — they were seeking meaningful connections and lasting friendships. They are women who have navigated life's tough moments with such grace and tenacity, checking off many boxes along the way, yet knowing deep down that their story isn't fully written. They feel that unfulfilled purpose stirring within, a desire to continue creating significance and to grow, just like the majestic tree I sat beneath.
The Power of Gratitude
This experience reinforced something I hold dear: the immense power of gratitude. When we pause to acknowledge the good in our lives, even amidst challenges, we shift our perspective. Gratitude isn't just a fleeting feeling; it's a practice that grounds us, connects us to the present, and opens us up to even more blessings. It reminds us that we are supported, loved, and capable of overcoming anything.
Embracing Personal Growth
Just like this ancient tree, reaching skyward and spreading its roots wide, we too are designed for continuous personal growth. It's about stepping outside our comfort zones, learning new things, and daring to imagine a life beyond what we've always known. Growth isn't always easy; sometimes it involves shedding old leaves or navigating stormy weather. But with each challenge overcome, each new insight gained, we become stronger, more resilient, and more deeply aligned with our true selves.
The Gift of Deep, Meaningful Connections
One of the most profound joys on this journey has been witnessing and fostering deep, meaningful connections. In a world that often encourages superficial interactions, there's nothing quite like truly seeing and being seen by other women who champion your authentic self. These connections aren't just friendships; they are lifelines, sources of inspiration, and a safe space to share vulnerabilities and celebrate triumphs. They remind us that we are not alone in our aspirations or our struggles.
Living with Purpose
Finally, and perhaps most importantly, is the theme of purpose. Every woman on this trip, like so many of you reading this, carries a unique purpose within her. It's that inner knowing that there's more to do, more to give, and more to become. It’s the drive to create significance, not just for ourselves, but for the world around us. Embracing our purpose means aligning our actions with our deepest values, letting our passions guide us, and living a life that truly lights us up. Just like the Strangler Fig, whose intricate root system supports its massive canopy, our purpose provides the foundation for a rich, expansive life.
So, as you go about your day, I encourage you to pause. What blessings can you count? How are you nurturing your own growth? Are you seeking and cultivating those deep, meaningful connections? And what whispered sense of purpose is calling you to expand and flourish?
Remember, you are designed for greatness. You are meant to grow, to connect, and to live a life overflowing with meaning.
All my love,

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