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Up for a Challenge?
Hello again friends! In June I decided to take a summer vacation from writing and now that there is snow on the ground I realize I...
Brenda Ridgley
Oct 31, 20193 min read
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The Struggle is REAL!
During the last month, I have been lacking inspiration on what to talk about for this issue. Toward the end of the month, I started...
Brenda Ridgley
Jan 3, 20194 min read
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The Perfect Friend Myth: Why Being Present Trumps Being Perfect
We’ve all felt the weight of it: the unspoken, often self-imposed, expectations in friendship.  You get a text from a friend about a tough day, and immediately your internal to-do list spirals: I must respond immediately. I must know exactly what to say. I must offer a solution. I must be the rock.  For some, this challenge triggers an internal perfectionist to take the reins, driving them to try and be the perfect friend in every scenario. For others, the perceived monumen
Brenda Ridgley
2 days ago4 min read


The Season of Gratitude: Shifting Focus from Stress to Blessings
As the leaves turn their glorious colors and the scent of cinnamon and woodsmoke fills the air, we are officially ushering in the season of gratitude. This time of year, with its traditional feasts and family gatherings, has a beautiful way of slowing us down—even just for a moment—to remind us to be profoundly thankful for all of the blessings in our lives.  It’s easy to get caught up in the hustle: the perfect recipe, the travel logistics, the endless to-do list. But I inv
Brenda Ridgley
Nov 253 min read


Stop Waiting for "Someday"
Can we just get real for a minute? If you’re reading this, chances are you’ve reached that powerful, pivotal moment, a crossroads of transition. You've done an incredible job fulfilling all your roles—mother, partner, colleague, caretaker—but now, there's a restless hum deep inside, a persistent, burning desire for what comes next.  Maybe you've felt that nagging melancholy, wondering: Is this all there is? I want you to know: I’ve been there! I know what it’s like to crav
Brenda Ridgley
Nov 213 min read
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