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Ladies! Start your Galentine's Day Tradition! 😍
February truly is the month of love and Galentine’s Day on February 13 fits right in. We are quick to shower our partners with cards,...
Brenda Ridgley
Feb 9, 20225 min read


The Friendship Resolution
Are you fed-up, sick and tired, and otherwise OVER our recent era of social isolation? Do you feel detached from real relationships with...
Brenda Ridgley
Jan 4, 20225 min read


The Trust Factor
“What is the most pointless advice that women are given?” This is a question I was asked in an interview at a stop on a Book Blog Tour...
Brenda Ridgley
Dec 7, 20212 min read


Adios Comfort Zone!
Creating meaningful relationships and building a Tribe first requires that you put more focus on YOU the leader of your Tribe! Today I...
Brenda Ridgley
Nov 5, 20214 min read


YOU Need a Girls Weekend!
Have you or a girlfriend ever said, “We should totally plan a girl’s trip to ________!” Have you done it yet? What is stopping you? ...
Brenda Ridgley
Oct 19, 20214 min read


Hey Soul Sister!
We all have important friendships that we don’t have access to on a regular basis. These women would most likely be members of our Tribe...
Brenda Ridgley
Sep 16, 20214 min read


The Family YOU Choose
The phrase “the family you choose” became popular among the LGBTQ community decades ago as they began to share their gender preferences...
Brenda Ridgley
Jul 30, 20213 min read


Meet Lady and the Tribe
Women are givers. Many give so much to their families and careers and after years of doing so they no longer have an identity outside of...
Brenda Ridgley
Jul 8, 20212 min read


The Prize is in the Process
Have you ever done something crazy? As I write this, I am one week away from an event I have been preparing for since October of 2020. ...
Brenda Ridgley
Jun 28, 20212 min read


~Finding Friends~
How does one make new friends since the origin and impact of social distancing? “We create our future self by default or design.” ~...
Brenda Ridgley
May 26, 20214 min read


Desperately Seeking Girlfriends
Loneliness and the feeling of being disconnected has become an epidemic. In our globally connected world, how is it possible for anyone...
Brenda Ridgley
Apr 7, 20213 min read


Find Your Tribe
Can I ask you a personal question? How many close friendships do you currently have? When I say “close” I am asking, how many friends...
Brenda Ridgley
Mar 10, 20214 min read


YOU are #1
Calling all Super Heroes! You know who you are. You are always being of service to others, volunteering to sit on the hump in the middle...
Brenda Ridgley
Feb 2, 20213 min read


Whatever Offends You Reveals You
Happy New Year! It's over! …. Blah blah blah... take a hike 2020!! Are we really past the jinx-y, unpopular, fearful, divisive, historic...
Brenda Ridgley
Jan 14, 20214 min read


That's a WRAP 2020!
Here's to wrapping up a CRAZY year! 2020 I'm taking you out just like you came in. Wow, what a year! If you would have asked me last...
Brenda Ridgley
Dec 14, 20204 min read


Up for a Challenge?
Hello again friends! In June I decided to take a summer vacation from writing and now that there is snow on the ground I realize I...
Brenda Ridgley
Oct 31, 20193 min read


My Question To The Universe
This is a little scary for me, spelling it all out here for the world to read. In a world where we only present our best life, share...
Brenda Ridgley
Oct 15, 20194 min read


Make a Difference!
Most of us strive to make an impact, leave a legacy or at least to leave this earth a little better than we found it. Some choose to do...
Brenda Ridgley
Apr 30, 20194 min read


Deadlines! Motivation Vs Inspiration
Deadlines! Love them or hate them, they help us get things done. Right? As I am writing today, I notice that the end of the month is...
Brenda Ridgley
Apr 1, 20192 min read


It's Time For A SHAKE UP!
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a rut? Going about your business day by day, week by week, month by month doing the same things...
Brenda Ridgley
Mar 5, 20192 min read


Beyond the "Crisis": Reclaiming Your Radiance in Midlife
Let's talk about that feeling. You know the one. The nagging sense that somewhere between carpool, career demands, and caring for...
Brenda Ridgley
Jul 23 min read


Beyond the Daily Grind: Why Getting Away is Your Secret to Clarity & Purpose
Discover how intentional escapes help you reflect, explore, connect, and design the life you truly desire. An invitation to join our women's retreat in Costa Rica.
Brenda Ridgley
Jun 193 min read


Crafting the Deep, Empowering Friendships You Crave
As we navigate the rich, complex journey of life, we often find ourselves managing countless roles – partner, parent, professional,...
Brenda Ridgley
May 66 min read
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