If you’ve spent five minutes on social media lately, you’ve probably seen the phrase "protecting my peace." It’s everywhere right now. On the surface, it sounds like the ultimate act of self-love and emotional maturity. But as a coach who spends her life helping women build deep, unshakable sisterhoods, I’ve noticed a slippery slope. What started as a healthy practice is slowly turning into a culture of isolation. When we break down this movement, it really falls into three

Let’s talk about a tiny icon that is causing massive social waves in our friendship circles: the infamous Thumbs Up emoji (👍). Now, don't get me wrong. I am not here to suggest we replace deep, soul-filling, face-to-face connection or long phone chats with text messages. Texting has a clear time and place—it’s the digital sticky note of modern friendship. But just like any tool, how we use it determines whether it builds a bridge or creates a wall. And right now? That li

We’ve all been there. You look at your phone, realize it’s been three weeks since you texted your close friend, and a wave of "friendship guilt" washes over you. We live in a world that tells us connection requires constant, daily maintenance. But let’s bust that myth right now: True, deep-down loyalty isn't about proximity or daily updates. It’s about presence when it counts. Recently, a client of mine - let’s call her Claire - was navigating one of those overwhelming midl